First of all please try to be patient, try not to be angry, just try. This show is doing for all of us. For those who like a pair of Damon and Elena, for those who like a pair of Stefan and Elena, for those who like a pair of Tyler and Caroline, for those who love the ancient family of vampires, Jeremy and Matt, for those who look only for Bonnie. They can not please all of us but they very trying.
So … All this is much harder than it seems at first glance. I - Team Delena but I have often written that I really like Stefan and is very keen to see him happy. He deserved this. He is very good and has always been that way. Damon, deserves to be happy too and the main problem is that the two brothers can be happy only with Elena. That is very sad…actually more then sad, that is tragic.
There was sexual attraction between Damon and Elena from the first meeting. Elena and Stefan all started with a spiritual affinity. Feelings of brothers to Elena is equally strong, the trouble is that the feelings of Elena to the brothers - a big question.
No need to blame Elena for what she gave in to her desires and kissed Damon. There is a connection between them, she knows that Damon loves her and it’s hard to be firm with him. She did not betray Stefan. They are not together now that’s why he sent her on this trip. Before they try to return something that was between them Stefa wanted Elena to deal with her feelings for Damon. He is very fond of Elena, he wants everything to be honest. Yes, he regretted his decision, he was jealous when he learned that Damon, Elena and Jeremy had to stop at a motel. But he realizes that everything has changed, and before they move on the need to understand whether he and Elena have the chance to fix it. It’s honest. It’s a real man to do.
Damon loves Elena as much as his brother. Just as Stefan he puts Elena life and her happiness in the first place. He did not betray his brother. The one who once loved will understand what is torture to be close to the one you love and not be able to touch, hug, kiss. What is torture to know that the heart of that one you love more than life belongs to another man. Not his fault that Elena had never told him emphatic “no”. She stepped up to him and push her away would be a big mistake on his part. Because loving person never loses hope and her step  for him - biggest hop he ever have in his long life.
The brotherly relationship, brotherly love should conquer all. Elena must make a choice or it will cause great pain to both brothers, and it will be only her fault. You can not wish two, not to shift your decision on others, not afraid to say “no” in such a difficult situation. She is not Katherine but can hurt even more if she can not make a choice as soon as possible.
I’m so tired of endlessly lasting war between team Stelena and team Delena. Both brothers are equally worthy of happiness, both amazing and a good. They are too different and they should not be compared.
This is serial, and it needed intrigue. The main character is always selects and splits hearts. If at the end of the season, Elena chooses Damon - that does not mean that it is the end of the relationship Stefan and Elena. If she choose Stefan - it does not mean that is the end of Damon and Elena.

“It will not be easy. It will be very emotional for both sides because it’s going to be a very honest, very pure, very difficult decision. Hopefully if we’ve done our jobs right with Elena’s character over the season, we’ll understand why she’s making the decision that she’s making and how that decision is meant to be right for where she is in her life right now.”

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OMG…i don`t want Elena make her choice between brothers it is too early because we have 4,5,6 seasons. I`m really scared about that.